Skip to main content

What Parents Needs To Know

It might interest you to know that people take time to learn everything about everything except important things.

we have people who go through the university​ for four to five years studying about animals and other things but n when you mention  parenting, people just go about it casually.
Note these:
⚡Parenting is a big responsibility.
⚡Parents are foundations and pillars of a nation. ( greed, revenge, indiscipline among young folks, etc  that we are facing in our nation today are traceable to bad parenting)
Parents actually determine the structure of a nation as such i think parents should be taught how to parent children.
⚡Parents are teachers and role model (where you like it or not children around you are actually looking up to you, they copy your actions and try to be like you and therefore you must be a positive example)
Some parents should be held responsible for the misbehaviors of their children. Many parents are carelessly careless, many of the them don't care about the emotional well being of their Children, they feel all the child need is food, clothing, shelter, school fees, school uniforms e.t.c. unknown to them the children deserve their proper attention and care.
From time to time parents should sit with their children and engage in discussions that matter, they should allow their children to speak up and so on.
In this part of the world (Africa), its only a few people who understand what Parenting is all about.
Some feel parenting is giving birth to children, building big houses, buying exotic cars and decorating the baby with all kinds  of materials. Parenting beyond that.
Parenting is an act of Building a child or children, from infancy to when they are independent.
The act of training the child, imparting the child with good moral values.
       

      _WHAT PARENTS SHOULD DO_


1) Spend quality time with your children, play with them, discuss with them and eventually pray with them .

2) Teach your children.
     Apart from the teachings they receive in school daily, take out you time to impart into them some values.
⭐Agree with me that its not every thing that they will be taught in school.
⭐What ever you didn't teach at home, they will be taught outside the home, who knows they may be taught by the wrong person and may be taught the wrong way.
⭐Children learn faster when they are tender their memory can magnets everything that they see or hear.
⭐What ever you teach your children will remain in them and will fight against any other contrary thing that they will be taught by anyone else.

3)Study your children.
✨ Find out what the like and what they don't like.
✨Find out their area of strength and weaknesses.
✨Know their Friends and favourite programmes.
Celebrate their strength and help them develop in their area of weaknesses.
More coming.......

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

HUMAN EVIL

Genesis 6:5 Matt 15:18-20. When we take good look at the world we live in today, we will appreciate the fact that SCIENCE and TECHNOLOGY, has helped us answer many questions and solved many problems. As technology begins to advance more problems will be solved and more questions will be answered. Men have tried by all means to solve many problems in the world he lives in, some he succeeded in solving, some he was unable to solve and others, he is on the process of solving. "Each time man tries to solve his problem without involving  his The Almighty, he create more problems for himself " In all these there are 3 problems that Science and Technology has not solved and can never solve. These three problems can only Be Solved by the Almighty God (The Creator of Everything). Problem 1: Death Problem 2: Human suffering. Problem 3: Human evil.   I choose to talk human evil at this time.              What ...
Post a Comment
Read more

The worms Of Technology and civilization

Technology has recreated and redefined our world, Without doubt technology has helped man in every area of life, therefore we can't under rate the Benefits of Technology. Technology is good. In  medicine, sports, communication, security and other areas of man's  life technology has made things easy. You can now communicate with your relatives that are far away with your handsets instead of travelling the long Journey. Technology is indeed very Good.     However the abuse of technology has led to many disastrous occurrences.  We have everything  we want,  but what we really need has been taken away. We pay so much attention to our phones and at the same time paying little or no attention to other areas of our lives.  We find it difficult to switch off our phones in church,  we chat during service in church,  we chat while walking on the road all these is a a result of the worms of technology. Technology has taken lots of our...
1 comment
Read more

Battles of the HEART (Deliverance of the MIND)

                       Introduction When we mention Deliverance, the first thing to come across some people's mind is the picture of a person that is possessed by a demon. Most times, someone may not be posses by a demon but his deeds are Demonic and cruel, this is simple, "demons can influence people's thoughts and their thoughts produce their actions." Everyone of us at some point some how have had evil suggestions in our mind, does that mean we are possessed? As we go on in this teaching, you will understand what I mean by " Deliverance of the Mind "                   Click here to find out more about  DELIVERANCE                   The HEART (proverbs 4:23) Do you see the importanc...
Post a Comment
Read more